A habit (or wont) is a routine of behavior
that is repeated regularly and tends to occur subconsciously. Habitual behavior
often goes unnoticed in persons exhibiting it, because a person does not need
to engage in self-analysis when undertaking routine tasks. Habits are sometimes
compulsory. The process by which new behaviours become automatic is habit
formation. Old habits are hard to break and new habits are hard to form because
the behavioural patterns we repeat are imprinted in our neural pathways, but it
is possible to form new habits through repetition.
Bad habits
A bad habit is an undesirable behavior
pattern. Common
examples include: procrastination (the action of delaying or postponing
something), fidgeting (behave or move nervously or restlessly), overspending,
nail-biting. The sooner one recognizes these bad habits, the easier it is to
fix them.
New Year's
resolution
A New
Year's resolution is a secular tradition, most common in the Western Hemisphere but also found in the Eastern Hemisphere , in which a person makes a promise
to do an act of self-improvement or something slightly nice, such as opening
doors for people beginning from New Year's Day.
Popular
goals
- Improve physical well-being: eat healthy food, lose weight, exercise more, eat better, drink less alcohol, quit smoking, stop biting nails, get rid of old bad habits
- Improve mental well-being; think positive, laugh more often, enjoy life
- Improve finances: get out of debt, save money, make small investments
- Improve career: perform better at current job, get a better job, establish own business
- Improve education: improve grades, get a better education, learn something new (such as a foreign language or music), study often, read more books, improve talents
- Improve self: become more organized, reduce stress, be less grumpy, manage time, be more independent, perhaps watch less television, play fewer sitting-down video games
- Take a trip
- Volunteer to help others, practice life skills, use civic virtue, give to charity, volunteer to work part-time in a charity organization
- Get along better with people, improve social skills, enhance social intelligence
- Make new friends
- Spend quality time with family members
- Settle down, get engaged/get married, have kids
- Try foreign foods, discovering new cultures
- Pray more, be closer to God, be more spiritual
A 2007 study by
Richard Wiseman from the University of Bristol involving 3,000 people showed
that 88% of those who set New Year resolutions fail, despite the fact that 52%
of the study's participants were confident of success at the beginning. Men
achieved their goal 22% more often when they engaged in goal setting, (a system
where small measurable goals are being set; such as, a pound a week, instead of
saying "lose weight"), while women succeeded 10% more when they made their
goals public and got support from their friends.
Goal-setting
Goal-setting
ideally involves establishing specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and
time-bounded (S.M.A.R.T.) objectives. Work on the goal-setting theory suggests
that it can serve as an effective tool for making progress by ensuring that
participants have a clear awareness of what they must do to achieve or help
achieve an objective. On a personal level, the process of setting goals allows
people to specify and then work towards their own objectives most commonly,
financial or career-based goals. Goal-setting comprises a major component of
personal development.
A goal can be
long-term or short-term. The primary difference is the time required to achieve
them.
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