Showing posts with label BDSM. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BDSM. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 20, 2019

SLAVE TO THE RHYTHM

Here are the snapshots I made during the party. DJ Daddy Rez brought his whole harem with him. Great that you all joined your Master and came to the club. Thank you guys!

Friday, February 15, 2019

Master/slave (BDSM)

In BDSM, Master/slave, M/s or sexual slavery is a relationship in which one individual serves another in an authority-exchange structured relationship. Unlike Dominant/submissive structures found in BDSM in which love is often the core value, service and obedience are often the core values in Master/slave structures. The participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The relationship uses the term "slave" because of the association of the term with ownership rights of a master to their slave's body, as property or chattel. While male "masters" will usually be referred to as "Master", whether or not female Masters are referred to as "Master" or "Mistress" may depend upon whether they identify as following the leather subculture or BDSM path, or simply preference.

Sexual slavery in a BDSM context is both a sexual fantasy and sexual roleplay. The slave master or mistress might be any person or group, though the majority of such relationships are usually either one dominant, or a committed dominant couple, owning one or more slaves. A sex slave and the owner, and others involved in the relationship, can be of any gender, sexual identity, or orientation.

The Master/slave (or Owner/property) relationship is entered into on a consensual basis, without the legal force of historical or modern non-consensual slavery, that is forbidden by the laws of most countries.

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

Master & Servant Song

"Master and Servant" is Depeche Mode's eleventh UK single (released on 20 August 1984) and the second single from the Some Great Reward album. Despite controversy surrounding the song, it still managed to reach number 9 in the UK Singles Chart. It also peaked at number 49 in the American dance chart and at number 87 on the Billboard Hot 100.

Conception and composition
The overtly sexual, BDSM-themed lyrics of "Master and Servant" — complete with synthesized whip-and-chain sound effects — reportedly meant that the song was banned by many radio stations in the United States (although the song reached the Billboard Hot 100 chart anyway, albeit only at number 87 and for only a three-week chart stay).

Reportedly, the song narrowly avoided a radio ban by the BBC as well. "Master and Servant" might have been banned if the one BBC staffer who wanted to ban the record had not been away on holiday at the time the other staffers voted on whether to add "Master and Servant" to their playlist.

Master & Servant

Is referring to a relationship where there is a clear distinction of power between the dominant party (master) and submissive party (servant).
In this relationship where one (the master) has complete authority over the other (the servant) in directing the manner, place, and time of his or her services. This is in contrast to employer-employee relationships because an employee has all the least some discretion in performing his or her duties, and to principal-agent relationships because an agent usually has broad discretion in conducting his or her business.

In BDSM, Master/slave or M/s is a relationship in which one individual serves another in an authority-exchange structured relationship. Unlike Dominant/submissive structures found in BDSM in which love is often the core value, service and obedience are often the core values in Master/slave structures. The participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The relationship uses the term "slave" because of the association of the term with ownership rights of a master to their slave's body, as property or chattel. While male "masters" will usually be referred to as "Master," whether or not female Masters are referred to as "Master" or "Mistress" may depend upon whether they identify as following the "Leather" or BDSM path.

Outside the BDSM community, the relationship of Master/slave is sometimes regarded as a form of consensual sexual slavery. In BDSM, a slave is a specific type of submissive. The Master/slave relationship refers to the relationship between the individuals involved, and does not necessarily require any specific acts, sexual or otherwise, though sexual activity is usually an aspect of the relationship. The sexual aspect could be conventional, and not necessarily BDSM. A slave could also be a masochist or bottom, but this is not always the case.
Some participants regard the relationship as sexual roleplay, while others enter into the relationship on the basis of a highly committed, long-term, submissive lifestyle.

Monday, April 8, 2013

Thursday, April 4, 2013

BDSM PARTY @ T.R.A.C.S

On Saturday April 6th DJ Cat will give her debut as T.R.A.C.S deejay.
Starting Noon SLT (9pm CET)
T.R.A.C.S at Timothy Plaza on River Island

About
Cat MissBehavinღ (catrin.galaxy)
I became acquainted with Cat at Bono's hangout / The Guitar museum.
Cat is a kind, charming woman. Talking with her always makes me smiles and she love to laugh. 
She told me she would like to, for maybe on one occasion, be deejay at T.R.A.C.S.
I asked her what theme she would like and she said "something naughty".
Now that was easy for me ........................ as you see.

Cat lives in Norway. On her profile you can read:
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    PRACTICE RANDOM KINDNESS AND
        SENSELESS ACTS OF BEAUTY
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We are all people behind the avatars and at the end of the day....we all deserve respect :-)

Cat's current DJ Schedule:  
Mon:    Toby's Juke Joint 12-2 pm slt (reopens soon)
Tues:    Cay's Oceanside Blues 12 - 2 pm slt
Wed:     Blues Beach Club 12 - 2 pm slt
Thur:    Bono's Hangout  11 - 1 pm slt
Fri:       
Sat:      The Wharf Blues 10-12 noon slt      
Sun:     Gonzo Lounge 5-7 am slt
             The Wharf Blues 7 - 9 am slt
             Cay's Oceanside Blues 12 - 2 pm slt 
            
 FEEL THE MUSIC....LET IT MOVE YOU!!           

Cat also makes clothes.
CatG Creations, is the name of her store.
Sexy and unique clothing both for him and her ..come check it out :))
Or see it on the marketplace.....

Monday, April 1, 2013

BDSM part II

Infa asked me to publish this picture he made.
He is working on a new Tom of Finland shape and it fits in theme.

BDSM part I

BDSM represents a continuum of practices and expressions, both erotic and non-erotic, involving restraint, sensory stimulation, role-playing, and a variety of interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who don't consider themselves as practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community and/or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience. Interest in BDSM can range from one-time experimentation to a lifestyle, and there is debate[by whom?] over whether a BDSM or kink sexual identity also constitutes a form of sexual orientation.
Think this picture made by Blondbear I most adore. 
The BDSM initialism
The term BDSM dates back to 1969, however the origin of the term BDSM is unclear, and is believed to have been formed either from joining the term B&D (bondage and discipline) with S&M (sadomasochism or sadism and masochism), or as a compound initialism from B&D, D&S (dominance and submission), and S&M. Regardless of its origin, BDSM has always been used as a catch-all phrase to include a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. With an ethos of "your kink is OK!" many BDSM communities welcome anyone with a non-normative streak who identifies with the community; this may include cross-dressers, extreme body mod enthusiasts, animal players, latex or rubber aficionados, and others.
 Although it is increasingly common for couples, particularly younger couples, to have "power neutral" relationships and/or play styles, activities and relationships within a BDSM context are often characterized by the participants' taking on complementary, but unequal roles; thus, the idea of informed consent of both the partners becomes essential. Typically participants who are active – applying the activity – are known as "tops", those who exercise control over others are commonly known as "dominants", and those who inflict pain are known as "sadists". These are often the same person, and the terms are sometimes used interchangeably. Similarly, those participants who are recipients of the activities are typically known as "bottoms", those who are controlled by their partners as "submissives", and those who receive pain as "masochists". Similarly, these are frequently the same person and the terms are sometimes used interchangeably. Individuals who alternate between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles – whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship – are known as switches, though the term is occasionally seen as derogatory or unnuanced and is rejected by many who might simplistically fit the definition. Precise definition of roles and self-identification is a common subject of debate, reflection, and discussion within the community.

About the BDSM Emblem
In the mid 1990's, a discussion on AOL set the course for what we know as the BDSM emblem. There was an idea that a symbol was needed to represent this brand of sexuality and lifestyle. As well, the symbol needed to be a bit mysterious. When worn, it could not attract a great deal of attention from "vanilla observers". It did have to be easily recognized by those who knew what it was. In the end, Steve Quagmyre, a leader of the discussion, created an emblem reminiscent of the yin-yang design. The choice of design was influenced by a description of the ring that "O" was given in the novel "The Story of O" (which is very different from that worn in the movie version). The ring as described in the book " . . . bore a three-spoked wheel . . . with each spoke spiralling back upon itself . . .".

Within the BDSM emblem that we use today are the three spokes which create three divisions along several possible lines of representation. One is that they represent the three divisions of BDSM: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. A second idea is that the each division represents one aspect of the BDSM motto of "Safe, Sane, and Consensual". A third meaning that can be derived from the divisions is that of the three segments of the BDSM community, namely, Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.

It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each unit. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style, the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM context. However "together" and "whole" individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSM cannot be done alone.

Yin-Yang symbol
The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is not accidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.

The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or irons of BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black, representing a celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality.

The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a lash as it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking. The all-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own.
By Blondbear